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Jesus as Husband

By Bill McKeever

Note: The following was originally printed in the August 2024 edition of MRM Update. To request a free subscription, please visit here.

Orson Hyde

In a general conference message on October 6, 1854, Mormon Apostle Orson Hyde delivered a message titled “The Marriage Relations” (Journal of Discourses 2:81-82.” In that lecture, Hyde concurred with other leaders of his day by telling his listeners that Jesus Christ was married during his mortal ministry here on earth. He said:

How was it with Mary and Martha, and other women that followed him? In old times, and it is common in this day, the women, even as Sarah, called their husbands Lord; the word Lord is tantamount to husband in some languages, master, lord, husband, are about synonymous. In England we frequently hear the wife say, “Where is my master?” She does not mean a tyrant, but as Sarah called her husband Lord, she designates hers by the word master. When Mary of old came to the sepulchre on the first day of the week, instead of finding Jesus she saw two angels in white, “And they say unto her, Woman, why weepest thou? She said unto them, Because they have taken away my Lord,” or husband, “and I know not where they have laid him. And when she had thus said, she turned herself back, and saw Jesus standing, and knew not that it was Jesus. Jesus saith unto her, Woman, why weepest thou? whom seekest thou? She, supposing him to be the gardener, saith unto him, Sir, if thou have borne him hence, tell me where thou hast laid him, and I will take him away. Jesus saith unto her, Mary. She turned herself, and saith unto him, Rabboni; which is to say, Master.” Is there not here manifested the affections of a wife. These words speak the kindred ties and sympathies that are common to that relation of husband and wife. Where will you find a family so nearly allied by the ties of common religion?

Not only did Hyde state that Jesus was married, but in the same conference message he declared when and where He was married:

Jesus was the bridegroom at the marriage of Cana of Galilee, and he told them what to do. Now there was actually a marriage; and if Jesus was not the bridegroom on that occasion, please tell who was. If any man can show this, and prove that it was not the Savior of the world, then I will acknowledge I am in error. We say it was Jesus Christ who was married, to be brought into the relation whereby he could see his seed, before he was crucified.

Countering Hyde’s claim is relatively simple when one reads John 2:2 carefully: “Jesus was also invited to the wedding with his disciples.” Is it rational to believe that Jesus, if He were the bridegroom at Cana, would have needed to be invited to His own wedding?

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